Immediate danger?
If you or somebody else is in immediate danger, call 999 or go to A&E.
Call 999FOR THE HARD DAYS. AND THE ORDINARY ONES.
WHAT NEXT?
Life doesn’t always go to plan.
Sometimes it really doesn’t.
ANYWAY. isn’t about pretending everything’s fine. It’s about finding the next right thing for you.
PRIVATE BY DESIGN
No account. No sign-up. No need to explain what has happened.
ANYWAY. is deliberately simple. Use what helps. Ignore what doesn’t.
If you need more than a nudge, we’ll point you towards people who know what they’re doing.
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WHEN EVERYTHING FEELS TOO BIG
NO LIFE OVERHAUL REQUIRED
Get some water. Or make a cup of tea. Nothing complicated.
Eat something if you can.
Get somewhere a little safer or calmer.
Tell one person you’re having a hard day.
Leave tomorrow’s problems for tomorrow.
You do not have to sort your whole life out tonight.
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SMALL ENOUGH TO DO
What would make the next hour slightly easier?
Not better forever. Just slightly easier.
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TAKE IT WITH YOU
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WHATEVER YOUR NEXT STEP IS
If you or somebody else is in immediate danger, call 999 or go to A&E.
Call 999Free, confidential support in the UK and Ireland, 24 hours a day.
Call 116 123In England, call NHS 111 and select the mental health option, or use NHS 111 online.
NHS guidance ↗In England, Refuge’s National Domestic Abuse Helpline is free and available 24 hours a day.
Call 0808 2000 247NHS guidance can help you understand alcohol support and where to get help.
NHS alcohol support ↗FRANK offers confidential information and advice about drugs and getting support.
Talk to FRANK ↗Cruse provides bereavement support, information and a helpline.
Cruse Bereavement Support ↗Childline is free, private and confidential for anyone under 19 in the UK.
Call 0800 1111Something happened. ANYWAY. doesn’t mean it didn’t matter, or that you should just get over it.
It’s simply a way of stopping for a moment and asking: Where am I now? What’s the next thing I can do?
It doesn’t have to fix everything. It just needs to move you forward.
Try ONE THING →ANYWAY. is not a crisis service, healthcare provider or substitute for professional advice. We point people towards appropriate support when something needs more than a nudge.
Outside the UK? These links are mainly UK services. If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency service.
THE MINDSET
Something happened.
Maybe something enormous. Maybe something that just feels enormous today.
ANYWAY. doesn’t mean forget it.
It doesn’t mean get over it. It doesn’t mean somebody else has it worse. And it doesn’t mean everything happens for a reason.
This is where I am.
Anyway.
What next?
Sometimes the next thing is tiny. That’s fine.
WHY THIS EXISTS
“Anyway” is a small word people use after all sorts of things.
Here, it means something different.
It doesn’t mean what happened didn’t matter. It means what happened doesn’t automatically get the final word.
ANYWAY. grew from a phrase used in a family that has had its share of hard days. Not as a cure. Not as a slogan pasted over pain. More as a way of asking a very ordinary question after something difficult:
Anyway.
What next?
That question is the whole project.
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SELF-SUPPORTING. TRANSPARENT.
ANYWAY. isn’t here to make money.
It does cost money to keep something like this running, so the aim is simply for the project to support itself.
If it eventually generates more than it needs, we’d like that to help organisations already doing good work.
We’ll always be open about where the money goes.
ONE DAY
One day you might see ANYWAY. on a T-shirt, sweatshirt, card or something else useful.
Not because we’re trying to build a fashion brand. Because sometimes carrying the word is enough.
Coming later.
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